Article 7 Concludes The Series of Articles on Resurrecting The Romance

This articles picks up where article 6 left off yesterday.

Keep in mind that when you are in love, it is easy to gloss over each others imperfections.  As these come to light as you are living daily life, it is easy to turn into a nag or a jerk.  Your love is never as perfect as the night when you proposed or accepted the ring.  Thats a fact of life.

But, that doesnt mean that you have license to be a nag or a jerk.  Its impossible to feel romantic with someone who you perceive to be hostile to you.  Dont put your partner in the position of not being able to love you properly because you have created a hostile environment.

When you do some serious introspection and realize that you have been a nag or a jerk, apologize for your behavior and work on correcting it.  Realize that it will take time for you to change and even more time for your partner to realize that you have changed.

In the meantime, increase the romance quotient by doing the other things suggested in this report such as giving your partner words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, and actively listing to them.

Conclusion

Keep in mind the vision of the person that you initially fell in love with and work toward keeping that passion alive.  If you left text messages saying you were thinking about him back in the day, do it now as well.  If you wrote hand written love notes to her once upon a time, take up the practice again.

Dont let children, family, friends, work or social obligations get in the way of romance.  Take the time to do what is necessary to keep your love alive.  Schedule some time each day to talk about the little things  your conversations should not always be about big issues.  Figure out how to have a date on a frequent basis.

Also remember that daily life changes people and circumstances.  Be adaptable to those changes without changing the structure of who you really are.  Accept that life will disappoint you, but you dont have to disappoint your mate.

Try to see your partner as an individual  the most important individual in your live.  Do things to make him or her feel special.

The best way you can reignite romance in your life is to integrate the purity of spiritual love with the passion of physical love and the power of emotional love.